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Kahlil O. Haywood ’11

Kahlil Haywood graduated from C.W. Post in 2011 with a B.A. in Psychology. Haywood was a weekly columnist for the Pioneer, writing a popular column called “Damn, He Got A Point.”  He now works as a case manager for CAMBA. Haywood took his Pioneer column “Damn, He Got A Point,”…

Relationship Column: It’s That Time

Alex Parker I was looking through Kahlil Haywood’s former column, “Damn He Got a Point” (last year’s relationship column), in the hope that something would spark an idea for this week’s column. I stumbled across one entitled, “Red Alert!” It was the possibility of girls becoming extraordinarily bitchy when their…

Damn, He Got A Point: Sprints And Marathons

Kahlil Haywood Our motives dictate the climate of our relationships. Good motives are those that are put forth with honestly. The bad motives are always hidden. We classify the bad guys (or girls) and the good guys (or girls) by their motives and how they go about accomplishing them. No…

Damn, He Got A Point: Sneak A Peak

Kahlil Haywood There are different things we do in order to keep our lives interesting for ourselves. Many people look to spontaneity to add excitement to their lives and relationships. Some people even choose to do this by “sexting.” This is a new term that has been coined over the…

Damn, He Got A Point: Do Overs

Kahlil Haywood I allude to quotes from stand up comics, a lot of times when I write, because I happen to think that we laugh at jokes most of the time because we relate to them. When a joke isn’t funny, it’s usually because you can’t relate to it. Chris…

Damn, He Got A Point: The Calm Before The Storm

Kahlil Haywood Often times, when you hear about a problem in any couple, it can result from a disconnect between these people or simply a difference in opinion. No matter the case, there’s always this one constant, and that is communication. I happen to look at communication as gas. You…

Damn, He Got A Point: Face Value

Kahlil Haywood The subject of love is sometimes touchy and boggles us all. Love is almost existential, as we never really have total concrete answers for it. It’s almost similar to topics of religion and looking for answers of “why.” In this case, its people wondering why they feel the…

Damn, He Got A Point: Where Is The Glove

Relationship Colum Kahlil Haywood As much as we all might think we know each other there’s still a lot that we don’t know. We’re all always holding a little something back. There’s nothing wrong with that for obvious personal reasons. But when you’re active in this world sexually, at any…

Damn, He Got A Point: Blind Fury

Warning signs before jumping into a relationship with someone Kahlil Haywood Being a man, I know that there’s no shortage of people who have been scorned, be it men or women. Women seem to voice their pains with past situations more than men do. Maybe, they’re a bit more discouraged…

Damn, He Got A Point: Red Alert!

Do women’s’ periods affect their emotions? Kahlil Haywood Over the past few weeks, I have been getting the same complaint from different guy friends of mine. Many of them have complained about either a current girl or a past girl having random outbursts of anger or irrational behavior. When I…